This has been one of the best days of my life! I am officially and legally JH's Guardian.
After a sleepless night for both of us we woke-up very early to drive to Livingston County for our 11:00 AM court date. Sherry met us there and after waiting about 30 minutes JH and I were in front of the Judge. I was a little worried that things wouldn't go our way or something might happen like Sherry changing her mind. None of that happened. I was sworn in and had to tell the court why I wanted to be JH's guardian. I am not an emotional person but sitting there telling the Judge how much I love this boy and watching Sherry across the courtroom crying did me in.
We left and immediately called Gramma(s), Aunt Jo Jo, Aunt Sue, Aunt Staci, and Uncle Mike. Oh, and our attorney in Cook County. On October 6th the motion for the adoption will be filed. I know we have an amazing support system with all of out loving friends and family so keep the good thoughts and comments coming. We need you all more than ever.
We got home and while I signed on to work and took a couple of meetings I sat in my office and watched Da Da and JH walking around the yard with JH pushing his car. They fed the chickens, picked a few ripe tomatoes in the garden, and watered some new plants. It was even better watching them tonight knowing that JH was legally ours!
We played and watched Yo Gabba Gabba and then we put him to bed. He was fine until he tore a sticker in half that Da Da gave him for doing a good potty before bedtime. Da Da went in and comforted him saying that he would give him a new sticker in the morning and that he should close his eyes. I heard Da Da say "I love you, now close your eyes" and then JH said "okay" and did just that.
YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI am so happy right now....and so proud of Jon, Rick and Sherry. Jon and Rick are amazing parents...and people. And Sherry is a very stand up person who cares so much about this child that as much as it hurts her she knows she is giving him a life full of love and opportunity! JH is a precious gift and we are so so soooo lucky to have him in our lives.
ReplyDeleteJon and Rick, Thank you for being the people you are!!I do not know many people who would step up and do what they have done. How lucky we all are for having you in our lives...I so love the shit out of you too!!
We pulled out of your driveway Monday morning and as we watched the three of you....Deb (Grandma) and I were both commenting on what an amazing family you are!
I wish I was there tonight to get my "Hugs, Kiss" "Hugs, Kiss" from JH.....
We will all sleep tight tonight!!
I am so very happy for you. This is so wonderful!
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely wonderful news!! Now let's hope making the adoption final may be an early Christmas present to you all!
ReplyDeleteI like the way you think Carolyn! :-)
ReplyDeleteSuch wonderful news! Adam and I are still reading diligently; praying for a smooth process for you three. Sorry my comments are in groups and not day by day; I usually am reading your entries via an RSS reader.
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